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2003\01\23@230323 by Lousy Engineer

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I hope by the time this letter is read by those intended, I would have left
CBE long ago and ready to begin life anew. I have been rotting from the day
I enter this company and continue rotting till the very last day. I hope the
fears, the mental obstacles and the failures never followed me to my new
job. I may not have a new job, perhaps, I resign for the sake of stopping
further rotting and get a grip on myself. Why not? A menial and labourful
job is much more meaningful.

I saw K, started to draw a new PCB for a new Immobilizer. And I am
sad. Why? Why can't mine be used? Why were there no discussion? Where were
my fault? I simply don't understand. No one wants to help me to come out
with the Immobilizer. No one wants to get involved. Everyone is doing their
own things and I mean very OWN things that served OWN interest. There's no
spirit of cooperation, no spirit of discussion.

I have my own fault and failure, I will have to admit. For more than 6
months, I have been 'designing' Immobilizer II. What took me so long? And
the end product is imcomplete up till now. I analyse for quite some time and
identify the main culprit. This culprit is inside my very own mind. I wanted
to do things perfect but lack the experience. I am helpless most of the time
and the prospect that the product will be installed to a car frightened me
so much. The possibility that people lives will be lost and the
responsibility will be borne by me Alone is very depressing. Constantly
during the development process, I received no help, or vague help from
others. The self prepared schedule was not followed. There are numerous
times that I just stop doing anything, just because i am unsure of myself,
unsure of the decision made, afraid of the brushing off by K and unsure of
the next step. I am constantly struggling inside, WHAT ARE THE NEXT STEP???
WHAT SHOULD I DO AFTER THIS? AM I SPENDING TOO MUCH UNNECCESARY TIME FOR
THIS STAGE????
No advice is available for me, no one is there to make sure i keep to my
schedule, no one is concern at all if the Immobilizer is completed in time
or not. As for myself, I sink into depression quite often, and instead of
moving on, I stop and surf and read everything under the NET, news, stories,
health product. I give myself excuses, I procrastinate. I started to hate
everyone in the office, I hate P for his attitude of constantly protecting
himself, of not being open, I hate K for constantly doing private project
and discussing it openly with P, all these while I am struggling to decide
whether to add another diode to the board!!! I hate them because they are
the very people that are capable to helping and making a difference but did
not. Needless to say, my R&D manager, has never been concern with the whole
company. All he does is making calls to numerous people and students, some
to argue over late rental payments ( i am wondering how many houses he
owns ) and some to arrange for tuition time. His time is preoccupied in
increasing his personal wealth, and making sure that every cents that goes
out of his pocket is worth the value. He never bothers on what we are doing
and in fact he know NUTs about electronic. He protocopy his tuition workbook
while we had our lunch, ( he eats gardenia for lunch ) and duplicates lots
of pirated VCD borrowed from frens. ( just to save that few dollar and fyi,
it cost just USD1.50 for the latest block buster ). He even took the trouble
to protocopy the cd cover and cut it nicely...

Personally, I feel very sour about all these, I feel underutilised and I
feel guilty accepting the salary for nothing done. I know i am not lazy and
I know i am capable of doing things. I know, my limit is more than this. I
know....i  just need some help, some  guidance and assurance, after all, i
am still a rookie engineer, i have my own mental obstacles, i have my own
self doubt. God, help me.




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2003\01\24@005205 by Jonathan Johnson

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Everybody has to work with @ssholes at some time in theyre life but you just
deal with it, get some goddamn excercise or something (sex is great for
depression, unless you get nagged when your not having it ;-)
Is your boss costing you money by making his? I dont think so, unless its
you he's pestering for the rent.
Is it your business what your boss does with his time? do YOU pay his
salary? NO, your not even paying for your own salary because your too busy
paying attention to what everybody else is doing with theyre time instead of
looking after your own
So someone else is designing a similar product to you? GET WITH THE
PROGRAM... so are 3000 other engineers the world over, but them doing it
while you mope around the office and whining to us doesnt feed your
children, does it? So some of your workmates think you arent capable of
getting your shit together long enough to finish your design? SO DO YOU!
thats why they are taking it upon themselves to design a product your
company can sell!..... so the company doesnt go broke and everybody be out
of work waiting for someone to stop feeling sorry for themselves like you
are.
If your not finding your job easy, work harder, it aint meant to be bloody
easy, thats why its called work.
If you still find it hard to do, then go be a cleaner, that doesnt entail a
great deal of thought....mop left...mop right....mop left.....mop right, see
simple heh?
Should you add that extra diode?
add the little bugger and see if anything smokes! its only silicon and a bit
of carcinogenic plastic fumes, it wont kill anyone.....immediately.....
the quickest way for a 'rookie' to learn it to blow the crap out of a few
parts, or themselves, whichever they learn from first
,disputing it with yourself wont help you, you can will I wont I will I wont
I all year long and get nowhere, whereas blow up 13 cents worth of diode and
WOW you just found out not to add it.( take note, I should hope by this
stage you know what effect a diode will have on the circuit!)
Worried your desing is going to kill someone? thats why we test things
thouroughly before we sell them and design them with safety in mind when its
an issue. Ever heard of redundant systems?
If all thats too hard then design something that doesnt involve peoples
lives......build a better mouse trap :-)

Last of all.....god wont f#%king help you unless you help yourself......pull
your self together and stop trying to depress the few thousand people that
just had to read that load of crap.

Have a nice day :-)

Jonathan

P.S I avoided mentioning the web site I know everybody is thinking of when
you read this crap...well I was anyway ;-), but Mr C Darwin we thank you for
your site.


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2003\01\24@021156 by Lousy Engineer

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Jonathan Johnson <spam_OUTjonathanTakeThisOuTspamOUTEREDGE.NET> wrote:
Everybody has to work with @ssholes at some time in theyre life but you just deal with it, get some goddamn excercise or something (sex is great for
depression, unless you get nagged when your not having it ;-)
Is your boss costing you money by making his? I dont think so, unless its
you he's pestering for the rent.



No, but it's great disturbance. Look, i expect him to at least be slightly concern of what i am doing, what i should be doing and to screw me when the schedule is overdue. Perhaps you  could try to work with someone sitting just beside you and shouting/banging on the phone for late rental and chit chatting with his tuition customers.


Is it your business what your boss does with his time? do YOU pay his
salary? NO, your not even paying for your own salary because your too busy
paying attention to what everybody else is doing with theyre time instead of
looking after your own
So someone else is designing a similar product to you? GET WITH THE
PROGRAM... so are 3000 other engineers the world over, but them doing it
while you mope around the office and whining to us doesnt feed your
children, does it? So some of your workmates think you arent capable of
getting your shit together long enough to finish your design? SO DO YOU!
thats why they are taking it upon themselves to design a product your
company can sell!..... so the company doesnt go broke and everybody be out







They  did NOT design the product so that the company can sell. They design the product so that THEY can sell it themselves privately. Nobody, is doing anything for the company right now and for the past 1 year. Everyone is waiting for the management to say the final word, Close Down.




of work waiting for someone to stop feeling sorry for themselves like you
are.
If your not finding your job easy, work harder, it aint meant to be bloody
easy, thats why its called work.
If you still find it hard to do, then go be a cleaner, that doesnt entail a
great deal of thought....mop left...mop right....mop left.....mop right, see
simple heh?


I need not convince you that i am a hard worker. I know i am. Just that I am very demotivated with all the happenings. Perhaps i have a weak mind, perhaps i wanted very much to succeed as a team. Perhaps i am just too human.



Should you add that extra diode?
add the little bugger and see if anything smokes! its only silicon and a bit
of carcinogenic plastic fumes, it wont kill anyone.....immediately.....
the quickest way for a 'rookie' to learn it to blow the crap out of a few
parts, or themselves, whichever they learn from first
,disputing it with yourself wont help you, you can will I wont I will I wont
I all year long and get nowhere, whereas blow up 13 cents worth of diode and
WOW you just found out not to add it.( take note, I should hope by this
stage you know what effect a diode will have on the circuit!)
Worried your desing is going to kill someone? thats why we test things
thouroughly before we sell them and design them with safety in mind when its
an issue. Ever heard of redundant systems?
If all thats too hard then design something that doesnt involve peoples
lives......build a better mouse trap :-)



I was just putting that diode as an example. Sometimes certain design aspect need some decision and i wanted some feedback. But none are forth coming, the decision is mine and the responsibility is mine too. And they do criticize badly.





Last of all.....god wont f#%king help you unless you help yourself......pull
your self together and stop trying to depress the few thousand people that
just had to read that load of crap.






I have nothing to say about that, but i feel guilty that my letter has caused you to use the word god so many times and in such a bad way. The fault is mine.

I am not sure what i am expecting by putting this on the piclist. But i do make sure that I put the OT tag correctly, and double check on the piclist for what it means by OT. ( no religious, hate, political ) I love the List and has been with it for a few years ( since students day). You have a nice day too Jonathan.



Have a nice day :-)



Jonathan

P.S I avoided mentioning the web site I know everybody is thinking of when
you read this crap...well I was anyway ;-), but Mr C Darwin we thank you for
your site.






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2003\01\24@041714 by Michael Noel

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Are you working intro a ex-comunist company from Est Europe?
Brrrrrrr


Miki













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Sent: Friday, January 24, 2003 5:52 AM
Subject: [OT]:Sorry for the Rant


> I hope by the time this letter is read by those intended, I would have
left
> CBE long ago and ready to begin life anew. I have been rotting from the
day
> I enter this company and continue rotting till the very last day. I hope
the
> fears, the mental obstacles and the failures never followed me to my new
> job. I may not have a new job, perhaps, I resign for the sake of stopping
> further rotting and get a grip on myself. Why not? A menial and labourful
> job is much more meaningful.
>
> I saw K, started to draw a new PCB for a new Immobilizer. And I am
> sad. Why? Why can't mine be used? Why were there no discussion? Where were
> my fault? I simply don't understand. No one wants to help me to come out
> with the Immobilizer. No one wants to get involved. Everyone is doing
their
> own things and I mean very OWN things that served OWN interest. There's no
> spirit of cooperation, no spirit of discussion.
>
> I have my own fault and failure, I will have to admit. For more than 6
> months, I have been 'designing' Immobilizer II. What took me so long? And
> the end product is imcomplete up till now. I analyse for quite some time
and
> identify the main culprit. This culprit is inside my very own mind. I
wanted
> to do things perfect but lack the experience. I am helpless most of the
time
> and the prospect that the product will be installed to a car frightened me
> so much. The possibility that people lives will be lost and the
> responsibility will be borne by me Alone is very depressing. Constantly
> during the development process, I received no help, or vague help from
> others. The self prepared schedule was not followed. There are numerous
> times that I just stop doing anything, just because i am unsure of myself,
> unsure of the decision made, afraid of the brushing off by K and unsure of
> the next step. I am constantly struggling inside, WHAT ARE THE NEXT
STEP???
> WHAT SHOULD I DO AFTER THIS? AM I SPENDING TOO MUCH UNNECCESARY TIME FOR
> THIS STAGE????
>  No advice is available for me, no one is there to make sure i keep to my
> schedule, no one is concern at all if the Immobilizer is completed in time
> or not. As for myself, I sink into depression quite often, and instead of
> moving on, I stop and surf and read everything under the NET, news,
stories,
> health product. I give myself excuses, I procrastinate. I started to hate
> everyone in the office, I hate P for his attitude of constantly protecting
> himself, of not being open, I hate K for constantly doing private project
> and discussing it openly with P, all these while I am struggling to decide
> whether to add another diode to the board!!! I hate them because they are
> the very people that are capable to helping and making a difference but
did
> not. Needless to say, my R&D manager, has never been concern with the
whole
> company. All he does is making calls to numerous people and students, some
> to argue over late rental payments ( i am wondering how many houses he
> owns ) and some to arrange for tuition time. His time is preoccupied in
> increasing his personal wealth, and making sure that every cents that goes
> out of his pocket is worth the value. He never bothers on what we are
doing
> and in fact he know NUTs about electronic. He protocopy his tuition
workbook
> while we had our lunch, ( he eats gardenia for lunch ) and duplicates lots
> of pirated VCD borrowed from frens. ( just to save that few dollar and
fyi,
> it cost just USD1.50 for the latest block buster ). He even took the
trouble
> to protocopy the cd cover and cut it nicely...
>
> Personally, I feel very sour about all these, I feel underutilised and I
> feel guilty accepting the salary for nothing done. I know i am not lazy
and
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2003\01\24@053059 by Russell McMahon

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> I hope by the time this letter is read by those intended, I would have
left
> CBE long ago and ready to begin life anew. I have been rotting from the
day

For interest, what country are you in?
Is the company government or privately owned?

Maybe you should be finding a project of your own to build in company time.
(That's intended as a joke by the way :-) )

I don't know if we can help you but just maybe we can. Start with the above
two answers and see where we go from there.
I could ask what CBE stands for but that may be a bit too specific?


       Russell McMahon

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2003\01\24@055357 by Jonathan Johnson

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Sent: Friday, January 24, 2003 5:10 PM
Subject: Re: [OT]:Sorry for the Rant


> Jonathan Johnson <jonathanspamspam_OUTOUTEREDGE.NET> wrote:
> Everybody has to work with @ssholes at some time in theyre life but you
just deal with it, get some goddamn excercise or something (sex is great for
> depression, unless you get nagged when your not having it ;-)
> Is your boss costing you money by making his? I dont think so, unless its
> you he's pestering for the rent.
>
>
>
> No, but it's great disturbance. Look, i expect him to at least be slightly
concern of what i am doing, what i should be doing and to screw me when the
schedule is overdue. Perhaps you  could try to work with someone sitting
just beside you and shouting/banging on the phone for late rental and chit
chatting with his tuition customers.
>
>
Well I have worked with worse..........I have one suggestion for
you.....stand up for yourself.
I have worked on good teams and bad teams, there is a world of difference.
If your boss cares that little about the company as the rest of the @ssholes
then use your time to further your skills and design something that will
give you an income when the company goes bust......like the other
@ssholes......see.

> Is it your business what your boss does with his time? do YOU pay his
> salary? NO, your not even paying for your own salary because your too busy
> paying attention to what everybody else is doing with theyre time instead
of
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the product so that THEY can sell it themselves privately. Nobody, is doing
anything for the company right now and for the past 1 year. Everyone is
waiting for the management to say the final word, Close Down.
>
>



see last rant

>
> of work waiting for someone to stop feeling sorry for themselves like you
> are.
> If your not finding your job easy, work harder, it aint meant to be bloody
> easy, thats why its called work.
> If you still find it hard to do, then go be a cleaner, that doesnt entail
a
> great deal of thought....mop left...mop right....mop left.....mop right,
see
> simple heh?
>
>
> I need not convince you that i am a hard worker. I know i am. Just that I
am very demotivated with all the happenings. Perhaps i have a weak mind,
perhaps i wanted very much to succeed as a team. Perhaps i am just too
human.
>
>
I'm not saying you arent a hard worker, i'm saying your doing yourself no
good feeling sorry for yourself and sitting in it....quit...go work for
yourself....you'll be better off .

As far as your comment' too human'........there's no such thing.....what
sort of an excuse is that? what have you got mushy peas or balls?

you only find out what your made of when the shit hits the fan.....build on
your talents.....make a list of them.....and youve got plenty of engineering
help here as you already know if youve been here that long.
>
> Should you add that extra diode?
> add the little bugger and see if anything smokes! its only silicon and a
bit
> of carcinogenic plastic fumes, it wont kill anyone.....immediately.....
> the quickest way for a 'rookie' to learn it to blow the crap out of a few
> parts, or themselves, whichever they learn from first
> ,disputing it with yourself wont help you, you can will I wont I will I
wont
> I all year long and get nowhere, whereas blow up 13 cents worth of diode
and
> WOW you just found out not to add it.( take note, I should hope by this
> stage you know what effect a diode will have on the circuit!)
> Worried your desing is going to kill someone? thats why we test things
> thouroughly before we sell them and design them with safety in mind when
its
> an issue. Ever heard of redundant systems?
> If all thats too hard then design something that doesnt involve peoples
> lives......build a better mouse trap :-)
>
>
>
> I was just putting that diode as an example.


So was I!

Sometimes certain design aspect need some decision and i wanted some
feedback.


See above and, @spam@PICLISTKILLspamspamMITVMA.MIT.EDU
dont you know any other technical/engineering people?

But none are forth coming, the decision is mine and the responsibility is
mine too.

responsibility is the domain of adults....you had your chance at being a
little kid.....now its time for the real fun and responsibility


And they do criticize badly.
>

dont worry we all do :-)

>
>
>
>
> Last of all.....god wont f#%king help you unless you help
yourself......pull
> your self together and stop trying to depress the few thousand people that
> just had to read that load of crap.
>
>
>
>
>
>
> I have nothing to say about that, but i feel guilty that my letter has
caused you to use the word god so many times and in such a bad way. The
fault is mine.
>

dont sound so snivelling......

> I am not sure what i am expecting by putting this on the piclist. But i do
make sure that I put the OT tag correctly, and double check on the piclist
for what it means by OT. ( no religious, hate, political ) I love the List
and has been with it for a few years ( since students day). You have a nice
day too Jonathan.
>
>
we all thank you for using the correct tag, and yes I would say most of the
people here love the list (well not quite love :-)

I apologise if I have been too harse but you really have to get your shit
together mate, stop feeling sorry for yourself, stand up to your shiteating
boss and workmates(people that lay down n take will continue to get walked
on), get your self a real job with people that give a damn, even if you have
to build the team yourself, have a holiday and hopefully get yourself
laid....well and truely laid :-)



>
> Have a nice day :-)
>
>
>
put some reggae on while you work ;-)


......but leave the.....ummmm......herbal supplements, till after youve
finished work.....it doesnt really help clear thought.


Best of luck

JJ

p.s where are you? and what is that miserable company you work for?(for now)

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2003\01\24@055810 by Jonathan Johnson

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and what is that miserable company you work for?(for now)
>
dont answer that you may get yourself in more dramas

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2003\01\24@110416 by Wagner Lipnharski

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Lousy Engineer wrote:
> I hope by the time this letter is read by those intended, I would
[snip]

Welcome to the world, the human nature and behavior world.

There is a statistic that shows just 5% of the companies actual running,
will be up at the end of 5 years period.  Some people just fight and fight
to keep their only one opened company, while statistically we know that you
need to open at least 20 companies to just one make it right.

The problem is not with the company, well, it may, product? price? timing?
marketing? advertising?, but 90% of any company is people, and people are
stupid, lazy, uncompromised, unresolved.

This is why you need to try to build the best possible team of people,
twenty times, and just one will do it right, and not for long, you need to
nurture them, so they keep together and working proudly.

Team work is a privilege, not an obligation or a demand.  Team work only
happens by friendship and objectives, not by rules or by money.  Money
NEVER created team work.  Just look for some real examples.  Rolling Stones
is a live example, compare them with BackStreetBoys or N'Sync.  Rolling
Stones sing and play like teenagers just because THEY LOVE IT TO THE DEATH,
they love the music and the show.  They don't care about the money or the
personal success in life anymore, do you think they still do?  They all
know that if they stop to sing, their life will have no meaning anymore.
BackStreeBoys wanted money and success, they got it, and after that, blew
up, there was no passion in the job.

Feeling alone in the project is a signal of lack of team work, but
unfortunately it happens a lot, mostly in the developing process.  Millions
of researches and gurus all around the world feel exactly the same agony
and sense or helpless, that is extremely frustrating.  As much complicated
the thing comes to be, more and more frustrated you WILL get during the
process, because less and less people will be able to help you, and much
less will be willing to help you.

That's life, and this is the world we live.  Nothing is perfect, nothing
will EVER be (except German engines and Brazilian girls - just kidding).
We will never be able to get even close to be a super-man, solve all the
world problems, not even started to be able to solve our own inner
problems.

Many engineers know the tire project was faulty when released, the
transmission is weak for the engine power, the suspension can cause an
accident, the electronics have a weak point and the circuit is not enough
protected against water spill or the wires can be cut under the seat and
start a fire.  Many engineers take few days without sleep just thinking
about the damages due their lack of ability to solve such problems.  How
many times a surgeon think he could do something better in yesterday
surgery, and the patient died.  How many nights of insomnia a fireman
experience just because he "thinks" he made a bad decision of go right when
going left he could save an extra life?

That's just life, nothing else.

During many years I worked alone, my own company, desperately wishing to
have a partner to share thoughts, problems, decisions, technical and
business decisions.  After I started to get people into the company, the
right people, the right team, I realize those decisions still being decided
by me, nobody else.  I just have a good team working for me, now my
decisions also can affect them.

When in doubt, take a beer, walk in the park, go home, choose a good movie,
bring a new playstation game and play it with the kids for hours, take a
shower, shave, have an air cut, have that juice fat steak for lunch, buy a
new shirt, buy that new tool you are wishing for weeks, buy a new computer,
take care of the lawn, cut some tree branches, fix that leaking fawcet,
waste some time with simple things that can reassure you are just a simple
person that can solve simple tasks.  This is what paves the great steps we
can do in life.

Wagner.

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2003\01\24@132057 by John Ferrell

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Life is like that.

That is a part of why companies want young kids instead of seasoned
employees. It is harder to take advantage of the experienced. On the positve
side of that is that I felt that if everyone else did their job they would
not have needed me!

My advice is to live lean, save your assets and retire early as possible.

John Ferrell
6241 Phillippi Rd
Julian NC 27283
Phone: (336)685-9606
Dixie Competition Products
NSRCA 479 AMA 4190  W8CCW
"My Competition is Not My Enemy"



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2003\01\24@174552 by fred jones

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Wow...Are you hiring?
FJ






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2003\01\25@055935 by Russell McMahon

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> Rolling Stones sing and play like teenagers just because THEY LOVE IT TO
THE DEATH,
> they love the music and the show.  They don't care about the money or the
> personal success in life anymore, do you think they still do?  They all
> know that if they stop to sing, their life will have no meaning anymore.

Do you mean to say that you think that there is meaning in the Rolling
Stones' lives ???

:-)

       RM

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2003\01\25@065653 by Andy Kunz

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At 07:07 PM 1/25/03 +1300, you wrote:
> Rolling Stones sing and play like teenagers just because THEY LOVE IT TO
THE DEATH,
> they love the music and the show.  They don't care about the money or the
> personal success in life anymore, do you think they still do?  They all
> know that if they stop to sing, their life will have no meaning anymore.

What a sad commentary on a man's life.  I feel sorry for anybody whose life
is so caught up in temporal things such as singing rock music.

Andy

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2003\01\25@073050 by Jinx
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> Do you mean to say that you think that there is meaning in the
> Rolling Stones' lives ???
>
> :-)
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>         RM

Still in the ring on your own then ?

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2003\01\25@073222 by Frank Babis

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> >From: Wagner Lipnharski <EraseMEwagnerspamUSTR.NET>
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> >Date: Fri, 24 Jan 2003 10:58:52 -0500

[snip]

> >Welcome to the world, the human nature and behavior world.
> >
> >There is a statistic that shows just 5% of the companies actual running,
> >will be up at the end of 5 years period.  Some people just fight and
fight
> >to keep their only one opened company, while statistically we know that
you
> >need to open at least 20 companies to just one make it right.
> >

I'm usually not one to respond to or read those inspirational
emails or even save them but I wanted Wagner to know that
this is one of those rare posts that I am saving.

When I'm at school, doing homework and can't quite get it
right, I'll "take a beer, walk in the park, go home, waste some
time with simple things that can reassure you are just a simple
person that can solve simple tasks.  This is what paves the
great steps we can do in life."

-Frank

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2003\01\25@090304 by Roman Black

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Wagner Lipnharski wrote:

> There is a statistic that shows just 5% of the companies actual running,
> will be up at the end of 5 years period.  Some people just fight and fight
> to keep their only one opened company, while statistically we know that you
> need to open at least 20 companies to just one make it right.


This statistic is totally wrong and is one of the tools
used to scare peasants into remaining as "wage slaves"
instead of starting their own business. When I published
a business magazine some years back I read numerous books
covering this stat, some blindly believing it and some
taking a more educated view. You will also notice that
when comparing the stat from country to country the
*period* for the business to fail also matches the initial
period for name registration.

The statistic is generated as a result of new business
name registrations compared to business name registrations
that are renewed after the initial period expires. It's
an easy stat for lazy academics to gather but gives NO
indication of the average business success/fail rate.

Many industries, ie building trades, computer hardware
sales etc gain advantages from registering a number of
business names and/or changing those names on a regular
basis. The stat doesn't reflect the money these businesses
make or whether they are successful. It also does not
accurately represent the usage of business name
registration for securing naming rights, ie you register
a few business names for things you MIGHT want to do,
then concentrate on one while keeping the others as
secured names only. In that case any names which are
not re-registered bump the stat as so called "failed"
businesses.

I've seen a number of people close down businesses,
because they had a better oportunity, or wanted a
change, or simply because they moved. These all add
to the "failed" stat but again none of these failed
in any true sense of the word. The real experts working
with real businesses generally accept that less than
50% of businesses "fail", and most of these can be
attributed to bad management...

If you ever want to test a financial advisor or loans
officer etc, just ask them about the statistic. I
guarantee that 90% of them don't have a clue about
the real world and will give you the business names
registration stat like it's some gospel predicting
your chances of success. :o)
-Roman

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2003\01\25@095532 by Quentin

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> When in doubt, take a beer, walk in the park, go home, choose a good movie,
> bring a new playstation game and play it with the kids for hours, take a
> shower, shave, have an air cut, have that juice fat steak for lunch, buy a
> new shirt, buy that new tool you are wishing for weeks, buy a new computer,
> take care of the lawn, cut some tree branches, fix that leaking fawcet,
> waste some time with simple things that can reassure you are just a simple
> person that can solve simple tasks.  This is what paves the great steps we
> can do in life.

Then I'll be jobless, broke and fat, but at least I'll have a immaculate
garden and a good hair cut!
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2003\01\25@111942 by Sean H. Breheny

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Very true, Andy.

If the sole meaning of your life is playing music (or anything other than
loving God and your fellow human beings) then your life IS without meaning,
for what gives meaning to your music?

On the other hand, if you realize that there is more than meets the eye,
then that deeper reality (of God) gives true meaning to every detail of our
lives, including music, electronics, other hobbies, etc.

Sean

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2003\01\25@125223 by TIM S

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<waste some time with simple things that can reassure you are just a simple
person that can solve simple tasks>
exactly what I'm going thru.
I shall  print this post and post it on the bulletin board @ work for all my
colleague's to read.

i kinda like the beer thought with music myself , it helps in deleting those
unwanted files  in the temp folder<G>.tim
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2003\01\25@133002 by Chris Loiacono

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!!!!APPLAUSE!!!!

> This statistic is totally wrong and is one of the tools
> used to scare peasants into remaining as "wage slaves"
> instead of starting their own business.
>It's
> an easy stat for lazy academics to gather but gives NO
> indication of the average business success/fail rate.

I remember starting a business for the first time back around '85. I heard
all the same garbage from bankers, so-called experts, etc...
When you have your $$ & life invested in what you're doing, you are not
going to let it fail unless you want to.

I regularly consult with floundering businesses fom a business & tech
standpoint - and it's absolutely amazing to see the overall majority will
pull through their difficult periods, even if they ignore all the good
advice they're given while making seemingly stupid decisions. They may
suffer longer, but they almost always seem to get well one way or another.
They are survivors. They will re-organize, sell out, start another business
alongside, or whatever. That's why I agree with:

>The stat doesn't reflect the money these businesses
> make or whether they are successful.  I
> guarantee that 90% of them don't have a clue about
> the real world and will give you the business names
> registration stat like it's some gospel predicting
> your chances of success.

The most common reason for trouble & failure I have seen to be just as
stated. Bad management. Emotional involvment of decision makers at the top
of the list. This keeps them from stepping back and seeing that they have
been trying to sell a product or service which has no corresponding demand,
or realizing that they are beind the times technically (because they are so
proud of the designs products and methods they are experts at) and because
they are unwilling to invest in learning what is needed to move ahead after
having such a realization. Too many get in survival mode and stop thinking
about anything else but day to day survival. These are the ones that get
ugly, with bankers and IRS people on their tails.
But, again....most do find a way to survive....

I watched a guy build a $2M business from his garage only to find that he
couldn't manage what he had built. He made every classic mistake, including
taking excess compensation in many forms, which he could justify 100 ways.)
An honest accountant could have kept him out of trouble.
He decided he would sell. He was advised to clean up his books and to cover
his taxes over the next year. He completely ignored the advice and
eventually found a large corporate sucker that filled his pockets while
taking over a mess. The business still exists under a different name and he
has more money now than he should be allowed.
It's the small business owner's survival instinct...So I ask, does any real
number of small businesses really fail?

To risk less pain:

Don't borrow capital in the first two or three years if at all possible. Be
humble and start small. If there's really something in it, it will succeed
from humble roots.

Expect minimumm wage or less for working 168 hrs/wk. to start. Glory will
follow....

Make a plan that is flexible, ask for lot's of advice and apply little of
it. Be sure not to follow the advice that sounds good because it is
emotionally appealing.

Play by the rules. Always. Form the proper legal entity needed, plan on &
pay the required fees and taxes from day 1. This will pay off tenfold later
on. Refuse to play the "Get away with whatever you can now" style and "Play
the best you can according to the rules" instead. The people you will want
to do business with can tell the difference and will be attracted or
repelled accordingly.

Keep detailed records of everything. Moreso than the obvious advantages, in
many ways that are less obvious at the beginning, you  will find ways to use
that info in making good decisions in the years that follow. By good
decisions, I mean ones based on actual performance-based facts and not what
you think you remember.

Don't isolate yourself and think you are the god of your business. The
smartest succeed by selectively applying the advice of a multitude of
counselors.

Make sure you are doing something you really are good at - not something you
want to be good at.
(this one stings many small business owners.) Be willing to make big changes
to do so. If you are not sure of what you do best, ask others around you, or
do the Gallup 'Discover Your Strengths" thing:
www.gallup.com/publications/strengths.asp
Which I have seen help a number of people already..this one has much merit.


Very few don't break these rules,and still succeed to a degree. These just
make it less painful and more enjoyable along the way. Even my  first
business, the name and form of which has faded into the past - has morphed
into the way I make a living today. I can't complain about the results and
rewards at all.  It has been great!

So, by some statistical method, that first business may have failed, but I
know that it never really has. And believe me - I knew NOTHING at the
beginning, and EVERYONE tried to frighten me out of it with statistics.
Don't listen to them...

Chris

ps:
Sorry to take so long - this is just a subject I am passionate about.

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2003\01\25@135904 by Tal

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> What a sad commentary on a man's life.  I feel sorry for
> anybody whose life is so caught up in temporal things such as
> singing rock music.
>

Everything in life is temporal and eventually man looses everything he
has.

When you get this, life are much easier but typically the ego gets in
the way.

Tal

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2003\01\25@144808 by Wagner Lipnharski

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> Subject: Re: [OT]:Sorry for the Rant
>
>
> > > When in doubt, take a beer, walk in the park, go home, choose a good
> movie,
> > > bring a new playstation game and play it with the kids for hours, take
a
> > > shower, shave, have an air cut, have that juice fat steak for lunch,
buy
> a
> > > new shirt, buy that new tool you are wishing for weeks, buy a new
> computer,
> > > take care of the lawn, cut some tree branches, fix that leaking
fawcet,
> > > waste some time with simple things that can reassure you are just a
> simple
> > > person that can solve simple tasks.  This is what paves the great
steps
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... jobless, broke and fat, immaculate garden and a good hair cut (bald?)...
Are you trying to describe BUDA?

:)

Wagner.

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2003\01\25@150238 by Andy Kunz

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At 10:57 AM 1/25/03 -0800, you wrote:
>>
>> What a sad commentary on a man's life.  I feel sorry for
>> anybody whose life is so caught up in temporal things such as
>> singing rock music.
>>
>
>Everything in life is temporal and eventually man looses everything he
>has.

Au contraire!

The wisest ones give what they cannot keep to gain what they cannot lose.
Your soul lasts a lot longer than anything else you'll find here.

Andy

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2003\01\25@155731 by William Chops Westfield

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>> ...sing and play like teenagers just because THEY LOVE IT TO THE DEATH,

The world exploits people who love their jobs.

This is most obvious with low-paying professions.  Teachers.  Musicians.
But it is also true of engineers (exploited engineers tend to get paid
a lot more than exploited musicians or teachers, so we don't get a lot
of sympathy from anyone...)

I guess, in theory, you can find a niche somewhere where your do your 8 to 5
workday, come home, and pursue hobbies/etc that are obviously different than
your job.  But an awful lot of engineers spend their work day engineering X,
only to blend into an evening of engineering Y, and end up feeling like they
never get a break...

BillW

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2003\01\25@174610 by William Chops Westfield

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> What a sad commentary on a man's life.  I feel sorry for
> anybody whose life is so caught up in temporal things such as
> singing rock music.

You know, most people's lives would be a lot more pleasant altogether if
they didn't have to listen to people whose brains worked differently,
saying things like:

"What a geek; I don't see how you can spend so much time sitting in
front of a <obscenity> computer.  Why don't you get a life?"

Or

"I feel sorry for anybody whose life is caught up in anything so
meaningless as singing <insert style> music."

A monetarilly successful musical group has (by definition)
brought joy and entertainment to millions of people.  Less
successful musicians have smaller audiences, but I don't think
they deserve to be labeled "meaningless."

Grr..
BillW

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2003\01\25@185125 by Andy Kunz

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Bill,

In order to make your point you had to delete what I was commenting on.
The context was extrememly important.  Your conclusion is invalid as it
stands.  Go back and put it into context.  I was simply stating that there
are better things to live for (the context) than making music.

I DJ (yes, that's music), I make computers, I teach, I design.  But none of
them compares to having a family, worshipping God, and enjoying friendships
I've made over the years.

Andy


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2003\01\25@200224 by Tal

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Andy,

Soul? Last time I checked I did not have any soul.

You still need to show that the set of things one "cannot lose" is not
empty. Otherwise, your point is meaningless.

Tal

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2003\01\25@224359 by Scott Stephens

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> Soul? Last time I checked I did not have any soul.

> You still need to show that the set of things one "cannot lose" is not
> empty. Otherwise, your point is meaningless.

Depends on how you define soul. We have our individual raison d'etre, that
which we love, desire and exist to bring about. And we, in turn, can be seen
as a manifestation of God/Nature's purpose. You can no less un-define your
reason for being here as you can un-define creation. How can you say our
existence is not the will or desire of nature?

> > >> What a sad commentary on a man's life.  I feel sorry for anybody
> > >> whose life is so caught up in temporal things such as singing rock
> > >> music.

We all have our choices, lessons and purpose in life. Insects desire to be
good insects. If nature gives songs for them to sing, or the desire to
excite and be excited in turn by an adoring mob of ravers, why should I
judge them, as long as they don't hurt me? They make people happy enough to
pay good money.

> > >Everything in life is temporal and eventually man looses everything he
has.

I hope so! I would hate to go to heaven as an insect, a dog or even a man. I
feel sorry for those fools that are paying to freeze their corpses, because
if they ever are revived, the advanced race of beings that will revive them
will make them seem as desirable in character and intelligence as dogs are
compared to us. Often it isn't the character of an individual cycle of
energy, but its scattering and change through a complex space that matters.

Scott

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2003\01\26@072155 by Roman Black

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Chris Loiacono wrote:

> I watched a guy build a $2M business from his garage only to find that he
> couldn't manage what he had built. He made every classic mistake, including
> taking excess compensation in many forms, which he could justify 100 ways.)

"taking excess compensation"?? Is that an American
term? In Australia compensation is what they pay
people who are wronged or injured.

> He decided he would sell. He was advised to clean up his books and to cover
> his taxes over the next year. He completely ignored the advice and
> eventually found a large corporate sucker that filled his pockets while
> taking over a mess. The business still exists under a different name and he
> has more money now than he should be allowed.

Sounds like he was successful in achieving what he
wanted. When you say "has more money now than he
should be allowed" do you mean he *should* have done
it differently and would have come out of the
transaction better off? I don't quite get your
meaning.

> Expect minimumm wage or less for working 168 hrs/wk. to start. Glory will
> follow....

Yep the sure sign of impending business "failure"
is the guy with the 1 yr old business who just
leased the flashy car and nice apartment. The
successful guy is driving an old car and spends
most of the meeting listening not talking...

> Make a plan that is flexible, ask for lot's of advice and apply little of
> it. Be sure not to follow the advice that sounds good because it is
> emotionally appealing.

Get advice from someone who has done what you are
trying to do. Don't get advice from someone sitting
in a dinky little room getting paid by the hour
for giving advice, and NEVER get advice from someone
paid to run a "how to run a small business" course! :o)

> Play by the rules. Always. Form the proper legal entity needed, plan on &
> pay the required fees and taxes from day 1. This will pay off tenfold later
> on. Refuse to play the "Get away with whatever you can now" style and "Play
> the best you can according to the rules" instead.

I'd question that, all successful business people know
to be flexible around the rules. Look at Bill Gates.
Convicted rule-breaker or not he's a much better (and
wealthier) businessman than we'll ever be...
People who assume the rules are bigger and better than
them are, well, little unsucessful people.

> Don't isolate yourself and think you are the god of your business. The
> smartest succeed by selectively applying the advice of a multitude of
> counselors.

Author Brian Sher calls this the "lone ranger syndrome"
and it's one of the biggest obstacles to brilliant
people running their own business. When you've had a
lifetime of being smarter than those around you it's
hard to hand over power to others. Richard Branson's
autobiography gives an excellent insight into the
fine art of delegating...

> Make sure you are doing something you really are good at - not something you
> want to be good at.
> (this one stings many small business owners.) Be willing to make big changes
> to do so. If you are not sure of what you do best, ask others around you, or
> do the Gallup 'Discover Your Strengths" thing:
> www.gallup.com/publications/strengths.asp
> Which I have seen help a number of people already..this one has much merit.

Looks like a great book! I love studies done about
high achievers, I personally like Stanley and Danko's
"Millionaire next door" showing all the stats on
self made millionaires in the USA. Interesting to
see the Russian and Scottish immigrants ranking top
in the self-made USA millionaires stat! The Americans
ranking very low in their own country due to spending
all their income trying to LOOK successful.

> So, by some statistical method, that first business may have failed, but I
> know that it never really has. And believe me - I knew NOTHING at the
> beginning, and EVERYONE tried to frighten me out of it with statistics.

Let me guess, these people were either; A, relatives
still selling their time to make a wage income, or B,
"professionals" selling their time giving advice??
In "How to make money from thin air" Sher makes the
interesting point that all over the world "poor people
make an income by selling their time"... The western
world just has better-paid poor people.
;o)
-Roman

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2003\01\26@140216 by Tal

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Scott,

> We all have our choices, lessons and purpose in life. Insects
> desire to be good insects. If nature gives songs for them to
> sing, or the desire to excite and be excited in turn by an
> adoring mob of ravers, why should I judge them, as long as
> they don't hurt me? They make people happy enough to pay good money.


I could not put it better.

We should not judge insects that want to sing, as long as they don't do
it in my kitchen of course.

Tal

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2003\01\26@151753 by Peter L. Peres

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On Sat, 25 Jan 2003, Tal wrote:

*>>
*>> What a sad commentary on a man's life.  I feel sorry for
*>> anybody whose life is so caught up in temporal things such as
*>> singing rock music.
*>>
*>
*>Everything in life is temporal and eventually man looses everything he
*>has.
*>
*>When you get this, life are much easier but typically the ego gets in
*>the way.

Yes but my ego is 'a balloon filled with hot air whence storms emerge when
punctured' (paraphrasing Voltaire in Zadig)

Peter

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2003\01\27@104024 by mulliganshawn

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> "What a geek; I don't see how you can spend so much time sitting in
> front of a <obscenity> computer.  Why don't you get a life?"
>

Ahh a Geek! The highest form of human achievement; never to be understood by
the lowest forms of human achievement.  Shawn

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2003\01\27@210354 by Lousy Engineer

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It would not be difficult to trace the mail headers and to see which country I am coming from. But, it's not necessary and i hope u won't do so. We are in the South Asia and basically, my company is semi-privately owned. 30% of the company is under the gov investment arm. But the company are not dynamic due to the fact that our customer belongs to gov and semi gov. Usually, it's not the competitiveness and capability that allows us to secure certain projects/tender, rather, it's connection and race based. ( as in everywhere else )

There are more to it, like the ch--ting of Gov grant money and many more. This is a real eye opener to me, and sometimes I do feel guilty of being a part of this, however a small part it may be. But jobs are hard to find nowadays, most companies are retrenching, and relocating to China. Whatever it is, life still goes on.

Thanks JJ, for the your straightforward writing. I mean it and i read it more than twice. Thanks Wagner, I will always remind myself of what you said. And yes Russel, I will do some private projects myself. Thank you all.





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2003\01\27@212429 by Tom Messenger

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In the field that most of us are in, a Lousy Engineer would be one who has
problems and does nothing to solve them.

Engineers, on the other hand, would attempt to learn how to solve the
problems. They might write something to the piclist and then carefully read
the responses. Then they would evaluate the responses and try applying some
of the techniques presented.  A little bit at a time, they would expand
their knowledge base and gradually start solving problems.

From what you wrote, it looks like you are taking this path.

If this is indeed so, you must hence forth abandon
the name "Lousy Engineer <@spam@depressed9992003spam_OUTspam.....YAHOO.COM>" since it is no
longer accurate. And since yahoo.com accounts are free, choose another one
that is better suited to your new outlook like "Problem Solver
<spamBeGonegetting_better_all_the_timeEraseMEspamYAHOO.COM>"

Believe it or not, this too, will help.
Tom M.

You wrote:
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>Thanks JJ, for the your straightforward writing.
>I mean it and i read it more than twice.
>Thanks Wagner, I will always remind myself of
>what you said. And yes Russel, I will do some
>private projects myself. Thank you all.

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